You have probably been told many times that choosing yourself is selfish. But let me tell you something important—it’s not. Choosing yourself is the greatest act of kindness you can offer, not just to yourself, but eventually to everyone around you.

When life gets overwhelming, and you feel pulled in every direction, choose yourself first. When you think you should always put others’ happiness above your own, pause and choose yourself instead. It might feel uncomfortable at first. It might even feel wrong because we’ve been taught that looking after our needs first is something to be ashamed of. But trust me, it’s the best thing you can ever do.

Choosing yourself means listening deeply to your own heart. It means understanding your feelings, your dreams, your limits, and your desires. When you consistently choose yourself, you tell your inner self, “I am here for you.” And guess what happens next? You start feeling calmer. You find peace within. You start to truly understand who you are and what you want.

Only after you have chosen yourself and understood your own heart can you genuinely be there for others. You become stronger, kinder, and wiser. Your presence becomes a blessing because you are no longer empty. You are full. And from that fullness, you can give.

So, today and every day, choose yourself. Because when you do, you become the very best version of yourself—not only for you but for everyone else too.