Halliee Hallo,

Here’s part two of the list of German etiquette for you.

1. Respecting Privacy: Germans cherish their privacy. Asking personal questions, especially about income or personal life, can be considered intrusive. The phrase “Wie geht es Ihnen?” (How are you?) is more of a formality than an invitation to share personal woes.
   > I learned it the hard way. In India and in Indian families, you try ask for privacy and you will realize why this is a bad idea. However, I truly believe every person should have his/her private sphere. Some people are shy, some introverts, some not so comfortable with sharing everything with everyone.
   
2. Quiet Times: Sundays are considered ‘Ruhetag’ or rest day. It’s frowned upon to mow your lawn, play loud music, or engage in noisy activities. Similarly, quiet hours typically prevail post 10 PM.
   > Ever since we have children, I felt the depth of it! It is something that one should do to be respectful. Imagine an old age person trying to sleep in your house and your neighbor puts on a loud music? Not so nice right?
   
3. Queue Discipline: While Germans might not always form a strict line, there’s an unspoken order of who arrived first. It’s expected that you wait your turn patiently, without pushing or shoving.
   > I was once, in the very beginning of my being in Germany, not following a queue (because I didn’t know that there was one), and one old lady went really angry and said something out loud. As I did not understand German back then, I do not know what she said but I am certain, she was not happy by my behavior at all.
   
4. Gift Giving: If invited to someone’s home, it’s polite to bring a gift, such as flowers (odd numbers, except for 13), wine, or chocolates. Remember, lilies and chrysanthemums are often associated with funerals, so choose your bouquet wisely.
   > This is something you do independent of cultures. I do this because I just imagine the happiness the host has when s/he or they see a small packet of surprise coming home, which they probably did not even expect. I am extremely delighted myself if someone comes to my place with something. I do not expect it but, honestly, this gesture does make my day.
   
5. Sustainability: Being environmentally conscious isn’t just a trend in Germany; it’s a way of life. Always remember to separate your trash, return bottles for refunds, and try to minimize wastage. > I am someone, my mum would say, who will throw almost everything without giving second thought. The thing is, if I am not using something, I will get rid of it asap, as I get anxious with clutter and things laying around in my house (or office). I learned, also from my mum, while being in Germany that one should live sustainable. I do not have to throw things in garbage but bring them somewhere where they can be reused by someone else.
   
6. Directness: Germans are known for their direct communication. This isn’t considered rude but rather efficient and honest. It’s appreciated if you communicate your thoughts and concerns openly.
   > Oh, I dread this. This was something that I came across when I met my husband and his friends, and my German friends, and other German acquaintances. Germans are not mean but direct. There’s a difference between the two. I believe, there should be a mix between the two extremes, like being honest and direct in communication yet a little honey potting when you talk, makes it all good! Am I right?

So, once again Leute, the next time you’re in Germany, embrace the rules, enjoy the journey, and immerse yourself in the rich tapestry of German life. Bis bald! 🇩🇪🤝🕰️