Dear Daughter,

Remember that I love you and will always do. No matter what you do and what you become. No matter where you go and when you leave. No matter what you choose and how you choose. You don’t have to become a scientist or an astronaut or a professor or a CEO. You can become a painter, a dancer, a singer or simply a care taker. Everything is beautiful. You can marry any man or a woman you love, you can choose to have babies or none. You can stay single forever, I will love you.

I don’t expect you to fulfill my dreams; those which I couldn’t fulfill. You must have your own and try achieve them. It’s okay if you can’t, not all dreams must be fulfilled. Some can stay unfulfilled as well. They are as good example as the achieved ones. They give you experience for life. Take it and grow with it. Age is indeed just a number, don’t pay much attention to it. Except when you start drinking and driving and also seeing someone 😉 Rest is just for bureaucracy.

Give yourself chances, first, second, third, endless chances. Never stop believing in you and your worth. You are born to be yourself. Idolising is okay, but don’t try to become someone else. You are you, the only you. Stay like that. Don’t let people get to your inner self, except the special ones. Try choose them carefully, if you make some bad choices choosing them so what? Who doesn’t make mistakes? All of us do. That’s a part of life. They’ll bring you experience and lessons to tell once you’re old.

But before you get old, live your life. Find the difference between living and survival. Live it for yourself, on your own rules. Get to the core of it and accept it come to you. Don’t forget, you’re my daughter and I’ll love you no matter what. ❤️